Title: 
6 Secrets to Be the Nice Guy Women Want

Word Count:
541

Summary:
Sure you're nice - most people are.  So what?
This quality is one that reflects your feeling 
that you're a man worth knowing and you deserve 
women's attention.  But do you really believe 
that women pay attention to what you think you 
deserve?


Keywords:
dating, online dating, seduction, flirt, relationships, love, romance, marriage, foreign brides, single parents


Article Body:
Sure you're nice - most people are.  So what?

This quality is one that reflects your feeling 
that you're a man worth knowing and you deserve 
women's attention.  But do you really believe 
that women pay attention to what you think you 
deserve?

Being nice is not enough. Okay, fine, you're nice,
 but you also need to be interesting.

Unfortunately, "nice guy" equates to wimp/dweeb 
in too many people's minds. 

Believe me: you don't have to be a jerk to 
attract women!  

As a matter of fact, women did not like jerks or 
aggressive men. They are attracted by challenging,
 interesting guys. That's all.  You can be 
interesting, challenging and still a nice man. Be 
yourself but keep in mind these significant 
things that can make the difference between a 
regular nice guy and a successful one:

1. Women LOVE a man who is a CHALLENGE... the 
quickest and easiest way I've ever heard to let a 
woman know that YOU are the guy she should be 
pursuing is to let women know you are successful 
with women.  Be a nice guy, but one that is 
desirable. :) 

2. The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a woman and 
spark her attraction for you is giving her a 
COMPLIMENT on her looks. This can be suicidal if 
done wrong... but just find something at her what 
you really think is special, different about her. 
You give attention, and you will get attention in 
return!

3. Not being aggressive doesn't mean that you 
have to wait for madam perfection to drop into 
your lap (which you as a "nice guy" deserve by 
definition, of course). You have to take some 
initiative. BE SELF-CONFIDENT (but not really 
cocky) and show some honest interest in something 
about a woman.

4. The best selling genre of books in the world 
is romance novels... because women LOVE romance.  
So don't talk about sport for God seek!  If you 
are not the type of man that reads poetry or is 
able to talk about moon or about the smell of 
burned tree leafs, don't do it. You'll look 
unnatural. But taking your date in a romantic 
place, offering her a nice flower, enjoying some 
good music or even touching her hand in a 
delicate way is very romantic.

5. And don't talk only about you. You want her to 
listen to you? Then first listen carefully to her 
when she needs to be heard. The most effective 
way to be interesting is asking questions and… 
listens. Only try and you'll see. :)

Keep in mind that often (not always, but very 
often) when a woman tells you about a problem she'
s having, she's not looking to you for the 
solution.  What?  That doesn't make sense? What 
she's often looking for is comfort and 
reassurance and knowing that YOU'RE THERE.

6. One of the most important things in dating is 
to approach women that are interested in dating 
and women that seem to be interested in you. Don'
t try to sell candies to someone that is looking 
for peanuts and don't waste your time with women 
that are still affected by their ex long term 
relationships. You don't want to be just a 
shoulder to cry?

You only live once, so live your life well!