Title: 
8 Dating Rules For Single Dads

Word Count:
568

Summary:
There are some gold rules to consider that can 
help you to find the best mom for your children 
and the best lover for you.


Keywords:
dating, online dating, seduction,love, relationships, romance, marriage, foreign brides


Article Body:
The problem with recently divorced single parents 
is that are waiting too long to start dating 
again, complaining they are oh, so busy. The real 
reason is their fears, because their previous 
situation was usually so ugly, they don't have a 
strong enough ego to let rejections roll off 
their back. 

Even if they are starting to date, in most cases 
are doing this for the wrong reasons. Some single 
parents think they are in competition with their 
ex, particularly if they were left for a younger 
partner. They also might be playing a game to 
prove to the ex that they are desirable by dating 
as many people as possible. In a nutshell, don't 
date for emotional revenge, to allay feelings of 
loneliness or to prove your desirability to 
others. 

After a divorce, both parties are tented to 
change partners almost every week or month and 
are not in the mood to compromise with somebody. 

But after a while especially single fathers are 
feeling the need to have a life partner and a 
mother for their children. 

If you are a single father and you are determined 
to find someone for a long time relationship you 
have to be sure that you are making the best 
choice because now you are not alone, you are 
making the choice not only for you but for your 
children too. 

There are some gold rules to consider that can 
help you to find the best mom for your children 
and the best lover for you:

1. As there is no surer turn-off for a potential 
lover than a person who insists on living in the 
past, make a rule for yourself that you are going 
to do your absolute best not to drag the past 
into new relationships. 

2. Your kids are the priority of your life; keep 
them there no matter what!

3. You have been careful to prepare your kids for 
the fact that you will have a life other than the 
one with them. But don't forget to make them 
understand that they will not lose your love, 
just some of your time together.

4. Chose to date only women that have at least 
one kid already. A woman without children will 
not understand you and your children needs and 
will not have too much patience. Don't forget 
that children are the best when it is about to 
exasperate somebody, and in the first stage your 
new date will be like a target for your kids jest.

5. Don't leave your partner to baby-sit. In order 
to keep children safe, it is necessary to be able 
to discipline them. It is too soon for your 
partner to discipline your children. 

6. In conflict situation try to put yourself in 
your partner place, be diplomatic with your child 
and try to be impartial. Find the golden mean to 
resolve the problems between them.

7. Never chose your mate only because she is 
getting on well with your child. You have to find 
someone FOR YOU and YOUR CHILD. Remember that the 
best for your children is and will ever be their 
natural mum, the women you just have divorced (
for some good reasons I believe). So find a woman 
that you are attracted to, a woman you find 
interesting AND that is willing to accept your 
children too.

8. Pay attention to her children too, and never 
forget that they are the priority of her life.