Title: 
Does She Already Have A Child? Deal With It.

Word Count:
609

Summary:
You should give unconditional love without any 
expectation. When you love somebody 
unconditionally, you are ready to do anything for 
that person, surely, if she returns your feelings.
 However, what happens if your loved one has 
already a child?


Keywords:
dating, online dating, flirt, seduction, relationships, romance, love, marriage, foreign brides, single parents


Article Body:
You should give unconditional love without any 
expectation. When you love somebody 
unconditionally, you are ready to do anything for 
that person, surely, if she returns your feelings.
 

However, what happens if your loved one has 
already a child? This should not be a problem for 
you if you are sure that this relationship is 
what you want and you are ready to make all the 
sacrifices that perhaps.

Singles that already have a child are very 
concerned and choosy about their dating options. 
They usually avoid going out and do not accept 
very easy a new partner. Dating in these 
circumstances is not easy for both partners 
because it is very risky. In any moment, it might 
happen you find out that she is not truly sincere 
with you, because every mother protects her child.

Be realistic and do not pretend it will have no 
effect on your potential relationship; it will. 
While you are dating, kids will limit the time 
you can spend together and put your love life on 
a curfew. If things get more serious and long 
term, they will play a major role in your 
relationship. 

If children are part of the family of someone you 
are dating, there are unique things you have to 
consider.

Dating someone with kids is a matter of 
compatibility and acceptance. Therefore, if you 
want to get into her family and to be accepted, 
you must win their hearts.

Meeting her child is a very important thing in 
establishing and maintaining functioning 
relationship. However, this should happen only 
when you are dating for a while and things become 
more and more serious. To extend your 
relationship you must form a relationship with 
the child. You may start by showing him that you 
could be his friend and your relationship will 
not hurt him.

So, prepare a meeting out, try to spend more and 
more time with the child and make him feel good 
with you. Spend time at their place playing games,
 watch cartoons. Be aware to the child feelings 
and wishes. Make so that some day he will accept 
you.

Watch out because children are very difficult, do 
complicated things and ask a lot of questions, 
that is why you should ask from the beginning 
about the child habits to know what to expect at.

Also, be careful at the details. Be sure that 
your behavior in front of the kid is appropriate. 
In particular, be careful about displaying 
physical affection when the child is around. Do 
not do anything in front of the kid that would 
embarrass you, he will report to the other parent.

Children use their parent’s behavior as a model 
for their own lives.  The examples you set for 
the kid will influence him over a lifetime.

If his biological parent is out of the picture 
due to death or divorce, he may use you to 
replace his parent and may act angry and hurtful 
towards you. Assure him that you do not want to 
take his parent place and you know that he is the 
most important in his life; you just want to be 
more like a friend and to give you a chance to 
get into his life. 

Discuss with both, mother and child about what 
role you will play in their life, this being a 
good opportunity for all to express your feelings.
 Therefore, you will know what your place is and 
how to act in this relationship to make it work.

With some luck and some sacrifices from your side 
and not only, you may have the family that you 
ever dreamed with the woman you love.