Title: 
Shoo Away Your Shyness

Word Count:
475

Summary:
Shyness is a very important issue, that 
nervousness that overcomes in certain social 
situations. It can be definite like having 
difficulty in creating a friendship or even 
starting a conversation with the one we meet.


Keywords:
dating, online dating, flirt, seduction, relationships, love, romance, marriage, foreign brides, single parents


Article Body:
Shyness is a very important issue, that 
nervousness that overcomes in certain social 
situations. It can be definite like having 
difficulty in creating a friendship or even 
starting a conversation with the one we meet.

Shyness can start in someone's personality from 
early childhood. A shy people may be viewed as 
overly serious, even humorless because for him it 
can be difficult to do something as a smile, or 
even say ' hello' to somebody. He does not know 
how to start a conversation or how to handle in 
certain situations, so they tend to hide.

Shy people date less; they are more focused on 
themselves than others when in conversation. They 
have irrational beliefs about what other people 
think about them. They are considered less 
friendly, not interested, and even boring. 
Therefore, loneliness can come from shyness. 

The problem with shyness is that we built 
negative beliefs about ourselves based on lack of 
skills. Shyness has several components that 
interact and affect the mind, body and behavior 
of a shy person.

If you are a shy person, you are probably 
somewhere between uncomfortable and paralyzed at 
the thought of meeting new people to the point 
where it interferes with your goal of dating and 
ultimately having an intimate relationship. 

People who fear meeting another people, asking 
for dates, or divulging personal information are 
at a significant disadvantage in the dating game. 
Many women are looking for shy men, but since you 
are too timid, you may get alone.  Therefore, if 
you are a shy person you have to overcome your 
shyness if you want to attract the one you like.

First, recognize that you have a problem, and 
talk with someone about this. Constructive 
counseling can help. Have self-confidence; do not 
be afraid to start to talk with everyone you meet,
 you will see that you have so many things to 
share.

Get out and socialize, join activities in which 
you are always interacting with people, like 
disco, clubs, parties, gym or even colleges. 

Your shyness is triggered by the inability to 
approach someone that you consider attractive. 
This occur when you think about your flaws, you 
have the fear of rejection. You approach her by 
engaging her in conversation. 

Start with a smile, show her that you are 
friendly and approachable, and start a small talk.
 If she make you feel intimidate, and even if you 
make a small mistake do not lose yourself. Do not 
worry; she will forgive you faster than you think.
 

Do not take things personally if she make any 
joke, comment or insinuation at your address, she 
does not make it to upset you. Laugh with her and 
show her that you are a good listener and you 
like spending time with her. 

After you will get over your shyness, you will 
see that your life will change totally.