Title: 
10 Reasons Why SOME eRelationships don’t Work

Word Count:
669

Summary:
You are single, bored and you just have nothing 
to do. It is another miserable day like the day 
before. You need someone to talk to and you are 
turning on the computer, browsing some... dating 
sites. There are so many people... singles, like 
you are.


Keywords:
dating, online dating, seduction, relationships, love, marriage, foreign brides, single parents


Article Body:
You are single, bored and you just have nothing 
to do. It is another miserable day like the day 
before. You need someone to talk to and you are 
turning on the computer, browsing some... dating 
sites. There are so many people... singles, like 
you are.

What should you ask from them? Can they change 
your life for better? 

The answer to the last question is up to you. 
Would you let a person you have met online to 
change your life? Are you willing to do this?  Do 
you trust someone you have met this way?

SOME people simply do not have the courage to let 
an online relationship to develop and change in a 
normal healthy relationship. Are you one of them?

Let me re-ensure you that online relationships 
really are working, and yes it can change your 
entire life, in a good way. :) 

But there are some impediments or mistakes which 
are leading to the end of the relationship 
between two people that could have had a good 
future together:

1. First of all if you do not take people you are 
taking to too seriously, you will be treated the 
same way.

2. Being too secret and reserved. If you do not 
tell things about you and you are not working to 
develop a relationship, nobody will make this for 
you. 

3. Trust or lack of trust is the biggest 
impediment of an eRelathionship. You have to try 
to get the people you are taking to trust in you, 
and then find out if that person is a trustworthy 
one. There are so many ways to check out this. 

4. Being shy. If you are interested in someone 
and you want to meet her/him offline, let her/him 
know this.  What do you have to lose?

5. Fear of disappointment or fear of becoming a 
victim of someone with bad intentions can make 
you paranoid. It is good to be preventive but not 
exaggerate about this. It is not funny and will 
pull people away. 

6. Unbelieving. If you do not believe that an 
eRelathionship can become something more then it 
is, you will not pay too much attention and... 
You get exactly what you give and some more, don’
t you?

7. Do not make that relationship a priority in 
your life. Any human needs to feel that is 
important for someone, that is the center of 
someone life, even if you have meet that human 
online. Don’t you feel the same? Wouldn't you pay 
more attention to someone if you would know that 
you are a priority in his/her life?

8. Not making the next step. Talking online can 
be fun but it is not enough to get to know a 
person better and after a while it can become 
boring. Talking on the phone can help you two to 
develop the relationship and do not forget that 
you can feel chemistry only when you two are 
meeting face to face, touching each other, 
feeling the smell of her/his perfume. 

9. Beeing insincere, pretending that you are 
something that you are not will lead you 
eventually to the end of any relationship. So be 
honest from the very beginning, maybe you have 
just meat the mach of your life, don't take the 
risk to lose her because of a stupid mistake. 

10. Thinking that online dating sites are some 
kind of shops where you can find a lover like you 
find a pear of shoes, and if you are braking the 
shoes you can go back to that shop and buy 
another pair just like the first. It is not true, 
every human, every soul is unique. If you lose 
her/him it is for good. So I am sure that you 
will have problems like all couples have but it 
is worthy to make the effort to solve these 
problems together.  

Be happy that the technology gives you the chance 
to meet your match online, but do not waste this 
chance, it could never come back to you.