Title: 
Secrets for Success in Meeting her Parents

Word Count:
675

Summary:
There is nothing as stressful and intimidating as 
having to meet the parents of your girlfriend for 
the first time. But, if you know how to handle 
this, you will see that can be a real interesting 
experience.


Keywords:
dating, online dating, seduction, flirt, relationships, love, romance, foreign brides, single parents


Article Body:
There is nothing as stressful and intimidating as 
having to meet the parents of your girlfriend for 
the first time. But, if you know how to handle 
this, you will see that can be a real interesting 
experience.

It comes a day in your life when you figure out 
that your relationship with your girlfriend is 
getting serious and she has to take you to meet 
her parents and family. This is a big step in 
your relationship and it is very important to 
make a good impression from the beginning, if you 
want that they agree to meet their girl anymore.

There are several occasions in which you can meet 
her parents, such as a holiday or birthday, 
picking her up for a date, or just a dinner in 
family prepared special for the meeting. No 
matter in which circumstances you meet, for 
impressing her parents you must be prepared. 

First of all, dress to impress.  You must be 
presentable at your meeting, that's why the best 
to wear is probably a suit. Your performance will 
be judged by the first impression you make in 
their eyes.

Before the big meeting make sure to find out from 
your girlfriend all the details about her family, 
so you will know what to talk with them. Ask 
where her parents work, about their personality 
if they are very serious or they have sense of 
humor, and if they like funny people or much 
reserved, to know how to act with them. It is 
important to know some details, to not refer to 
her grandparents if you don't know if they are 
still alive. 

Also asking questions about her family will show 
her that you really care, that you are interested,
 and ready to do all the sacrifices that are 
necessary to make their parents like you. 
Remember that in the first meeting you must make 
sure that they observe your good manners, to 
prove her parents that you deserve to be with 
their daughter. 

If the meeting takes place at their home, don’t 
forget to bring a gift, such as flowers, a box of 
chocolate or a bottle of wine to show that you 
are polite. Be confident, give her father a firm 
handshake, and as a sign of respect call him Sir. 

You have to make a good conversation, but also be 
prepared for many questions towards your family. 
Don't panic, relax and look in them eyes and 
answer as nicely as you can. Be prepared to 
answer at the question about what do you want to 
do in the future. Speak about your job, family, 
sports, but don't bring any discussion about 
money, politics or personal questions. Asking 
questions about their family will show your 
interest about them, as far as your aim is to get 
along with both partners, to get on their good 
sides.

Keep a smiled face to show you are friendly; be 
personable, polite and respectful. Flatters her 
mother's look or clothing and compliment her 
cooking by finishing your plate. You may offer 
your help to clean up the dishes; this will 
certainly impress her mother. 

Be yourself, to see from the beginning how you 
are, and don't show too much affection towards 
your girlfriend in their presence, one kiss is 
enough, to not think her parents that you are 
over reacting.

Before you leave tell her parents that it was a 
pleasure meeting them and they have a very 
special daughter. 

You will see that it will be harder with her 
father which wouldn’t accept easy that now it is 
another man in his daughter life except him, but 
if you conquered her mother you will see that she 
will be the one which will invite you for dinner 
and will defend you in front of her husband if 
she really likes you. 

So, meeting her parents can't be so bad, and if 
you really success with this meeting it will base 
a great friendship between you, which will have a 
big positive effect on your relationship.