Title: 
The Biggest Mistakes Men Make in a Relationship

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783

Summary:
Relationships are difficult to sustain. Very few 
relationships sustain for long with both partners 
totally happy. Most people carry through a 
relationship without any joy.


Keywords:
dating, online dating, seduction, relationships, love, romance, marriage, foreign brides, single parents


Article Body:
Relationships are difficult to sustain. Very few 
relationships sustain for long with both partners 
totally happy. Most people carry through a 
relationship without any joy.

We all start our new relationships with hopes, 
dreams, and wonderful aspirations. But oftentimes,
 we see couples, or in our own relationships, 
where things turn sour.  What can be done to keep 
a relationship strong and joyous? Avoid this 
common mistakes.

1. Not investing enough time in your relationship

2. "Housework" is not just for women. You can 
learn how to do laundry, vacuum the house and 
wash the dishes if you haven’t learned in the 
past. 

3. Your partner is NOT your Mom and is not 
responsible to help you remember what it takes to 
keep harmony and peace in your relationship.

4. Thinking everything is about you and for you. 
Basically being selfish in a relationship.

5. Storming out of an argument without an 
agreement to at least come back later for 
resolution 

6. Not listening too and supporting your partner’
s ideas even if you don’t believe in them

7. Constantly talking smack about her family 
members. You knew who they were before you became 
involved with her and whether you like it or not, 
they are there to stay. Please remember that 
blood is thicker than water. That doesn’t mean 
you can’t voice an opinion occasionally, it just 
means don’t constantly rail on her family even if 
you are right. You’ll plant a seed in her that 
may grow into a thorn bush.

8. Not taking your time in bed with her to allow 
her to grab a piece of heaven. Men want quick 
affection, sex, and security with a woman. And 
then we want the space and relaxed distance. 
Women want space and relaxed distance. THEN they 
want affection, sex, and a build-up of trust and 
security. 

9. Not learning to be emotionally available. 
Women aren’t asking you to stop being a man, just 
talk about who you are, where you came from, past 
history and future dreams.) If this is hard for 
you, seek help or join a group.

Counseling can be difficult for men. It is 
traditionally based on talking and sharing. These 
are more conducive for women. But there are male 
counselors out there and you don't have to go to 
just anyone. You have the power of choice. Going 
to counseling is not a sign of weakness. Not 
going is more a sign of weakness, because you are 
avoiding the real problems and stand to lose your 
love relationship.

Also there are another mistakes  that a men 
should avoid: 

* Never tell any woman that she has put on weight,
 even if you think it only makes her sexier, keep 
silent. Most women are fiercely fighting against 
extra pounds - they are dieting, taking pills, 
and work out until they faint.

* Don’t nag at her for spending the whole day and 
a fortune in a beauty parlor. For girls a new 
hairstyle or fresh manicure symbolizes a new life.

* Never criticize her cooking skills, even in the 
most delicate way ("My mom usually adds eggs in 
the pancake batter"). Your mom has nothing to do 
with your relationship.
 
* Never praise another woman’s looks if your 
girlfriend is around. Beware that the mere fact 
that divas of this caliber exist on the same 
planet makes the life of every woman miserable. 
Your girlfriend is concerned about her body, no 
matter how perfect she seems to you.
  
* Don’t take your girlfriend to a soccer (hockey, 
golf, etc.) tournament. She will either sit there 
bored and ruin your fun, or will get to like the 
sport and in no time she will know more about 
soccer (hockey, golf, etc.) than you do, which 
will piss you off eventually. This way she will 
deprive you of one of our main guys’ pleasures. 

* In most of relationships both partners try to 
avoid conflicts .Conflict includes such examples 
as arguments, differences, and variances. The 
Truth is, we are all different. That's what makes 
each one of us special. But, sometimes we try to 
avoid our partner. This is much like number one 
on the list but is more keenly felt by the 
partner. Worst is that we blame others (or other 
things) and deny our own self-responsibility. 
When we avoid responsibility, we typically 
express it as blaming others, usually our partner,
 and try to make them change and conform. This is 
a form of manipulation and an avoidance of Self. 
Many of us  refuse to get help.

If you had the methods and the tools to keep your 
relationship alive, loving and healthy you don't 
need any advices but if not you should avoid this 
mistakes.